The justification of sitting at the bar with a glass of wine, trying to watch the hockey game, and get a blog post up is kind of absurd and unruly.
Truth be told, nobody should have to sit alone at the bar, but in my defense, I do not have television to allow myself to the pleasure of watching the hockey game in the comfort of my own home. Fortunately enough, the next best thing I find pleasurable being at the local watering hole is the semi-continuous consumption of alcohol. No matter what the cost, obviously, if one can afford it. The only downfall to this experience is the amount of strange, dark people that one can - and will - come across.
Anyway, realization has hit me that not only do people base the premise of their emotions on subjects of sexuality and appearance but also the entire construct of “meme theory”.
In society, some people tend to not have the capacity to actually digest the social construct and realization of which the “meme theory” strives on. The locus of identity suffers by the by and allows gossip to latch on one another and spreads itself using human beings as hosts; something of wild fire and forests. However, not only is that a problem, it becomes a result. The “endgame”, if you will. The majority of the human subjects being objectified in the sense of losing their identity pinpoints to the exaggeration of rumours, gossips and the untold truth. The major point of this “meme theory” is actually humanity’s ability to follow social construct and conduct conversations will fall through without it. Apparently, it is a necessity and asset to the whole global social aspect.
For instance, if I was sitting at a bar or a café with a couple friends or just one, the highest peak of conversation is the knowledge (or topic of choice) is about mutual person one loves or has an indifference with. Now, let’s say that someone sitting in the same circle at the time abruptly interjects with a new insight to the hot topic of conversation, one’s first reaction will result in debating the next strategic defense mechanisms or manoeuvres. Why? It is actually human instinct to control our emotions that seem to have set loose fireworks. Damage control. By this point, it has already been too late and everything that has been said will most likely return to the person of topic. Once he or she finds out what a despicable thing that has been done or said, it is now time to either apologize or stand on firm ground for an intervention.
Somehow, someone out there, will repeat exactly what you said and at the end of it, it becomes a vicious cycle of never-ending repetition of clichéd drama. However, is there any other way we know how to live? Since the first day of communication, there has always been an indifference between each individual, but upon mutual understanding - we really only reciprocate the same respect we receive. By not partaking in the “meme theory”, we abandon the truth of society.
Before you go ahead and disagree, I will lay out one point: everyone is born the same, alone… unless it was a twin. The majority of us all undermine the greatness of being alone - not lonely, but alone. For the sole reason, whatever that would be to some people, but that it appears humanity must justify their social strata based on popularity. My belief is that sometimes when sitting in complete and true utter silence, allows the mind to breathe. To breathe is to be in peace or serenity; to release the kinds of anger, indifference, power of manipulation and the justification that one will win all your battles. No one will ever win every single battle, so why set that expectation that will eventually be result in soul-crushing conundrum?
The end will always vary in the mind’s ability to control actions and how far it is willing to go. However, that is not always true. In some senses, the indifference between oneself and one another is the reflection. This “meme theory” is just a tool to help understand why society talk or act the way it does: humanity is always trying to defend themselves.
Now, instead of defending, why not try to just take the metaphoric blow - get up and learn from it. That would be the best way to grow and nurture oneself to maturity levels only one can bring oneself up to. To be comfortable is to put oneself in an uncomfortable situation and just get used to it.
Go ahead, let loose.